Fri. Dec 8th, 2023

In my own quest to find love over the years, I’ve only found that there’s still a lot that I need to learn about it. I truly desired to find it so much that I’ve done all that I could in my pursuit of finding my other half. I’ve gone to match makers, blind dates, online dating apps, and I even allowed my mother to set me up with her friend’s daughter (what a disaster). I have even gone to  psychics and spiritual teachers in hopes of being told that someone was out there for me. However, I learned more than I ever could with one particular teacher. 

In  our journey through life, we encounter various teachers who impart invaluable wisdom and guide us towards self-discovery. One such teacher in my life is Alura, a spiritual mentor who has enlightened me about the significance of divine timing, soul lessons, and the rarity of true love. Through her teachings, I have come to understand that true love goes beyond perfection and plays a profound role in our spiritual growth. I would like to share with you the wisdom Alura has imparted, emphasizing the rarity of true love and the importance of embracing divine timing and soul lessons. If you’re searching for love, this information could be helpful.

In her teachings, Alura emphasizes that everything in life happens according to divine timing. Everything is predetermined. Yet in the matrix (our reality, as Alura calls it) there are also lots of interferences that try push us farther off of our destined path. This includes the arrival of true love in our lives. We may yearn for love and companionship, but it is crucial to trust that the universe has a plan for us. True love often appears when we are ready to receive it, when we have learned the necessary lessons and grown spiritually. Alura teaches that virtues are the foundation of love and divinity. Patience and trust and divine timing are essential in allowing true love to manifest. Alura teaches that our souls embark on a journey of growth and evolution in each lifetime. Relationships, especially those involving true love, serve as catalysts for our soul lessons. True love challenges us, pushes us to confront our fears, and helps us grow into our highest potential. It is through the trials and tribulations of love that we learn valuable lessons about ourselves, our strengths, and our areas for growth.

I’ve also learned that true love is indeed rare. It is not merely about finding someone perfect, but rather finding someone who accepts us unconditionally, flaws and all. True love transcends superficial qualities and embraces the essence of who we are at our core. It is a connection that goes beyond physical attraction and withstands the tests of time and adversity. Alura reminds us that true love is a precious gift that should be cherished and nurtured. She encourages us to let go of the pursuit of perfection in love. Instead, she teaches us to embrace the imperfections within ourselves and our partners. True love is about accepting and loving each other’s flaws, recognizing that it is through these imperfections that we grow and learn together. It is in the acceptance of imperfections that we find true connection and deep fulfillment. Once one has learned and truly experienced all of that, perfect love arrives. Totally confusing but I think I got it. Are you following?

I believe what I have come to understand is the profound role that divine timing, and soul lessons truly play in our lives. True love is indeed rare, and finding someone perfect is even rarer. However, true love goes beyond perfection, embracing imperfections and nurturing growth. It is a connection that transcends time and circumstances, challenging us to become the best versions of ourselves. As we embrace divine timing and the lessons we have agreed to learn as a soul, we open ourselves up to the possibility of experiencing the transformative power of true love. Let us cherish and honor this rare gift, knowing that it is through love that we truly find ourselves.

Love, the most profound and sought-after emotion, has the power to transform lives and bring immense joy. Yet, true love, the kind that transcends time and circumstances, is a rarity in today’s fast-paced world. It is a precious gem that, once found, must be cherished and embraced wholeheartedly. It is crucial to seize the opportunity when it presents itself.

True love is a rare find

In a world filled with superficial connections and fleeting romances, it is easy to confuse infatuation or attraction with true love. Alura has taught many about the differences between true love and infatuation in her courses. According to her, they are so similar at first, that many confuse infatuation for being love.
Society also bombards us with unrealistic expectations and idealized notions of love, leading us to settle for less. True love, however, goes beyond mere physical attraction or temporary infatuation. It is a deep emotional connection that withstands the test of time.

What I’ve learned is that true love requires vulnerability, the willingness to open our hearts and expose our deepest selves to another person. Unfortunately, many people fear this vulnerability, as it leaves them susceptible to pain and heartbreak. Consequently, they build walls around their hearts, preventing them from experiencing the profound connection that true love offers. In our quest for perfection, we often overlook the imperfect beauty of genuine love. We become fixated on finding someone who meets our every expectation, ticking off a checklist of desirable qualities. However, true love is not about finding someone perfect, but rather someone who accepts us for who we are, flaws and all. It is about embracing imperfections and growing together.

Timing plays a significant role in finding true love. Sometimes, we meet incredible individuals when we are not ready or open to love. Other times, we may be ready, but the person we encounter is not. The stars must align for two souls to connect deeply and genuinely. Hence, when the opportunity arises, it is crucial to seize it, for it may not come again. True love often requires taking risks and stepping out of our comfort zones. It may involve leaving behind familiar territory, confronting our fears, or making sacrifices. However, the rewards of true love far outweigh the risks. It brings immense happiness, fulfillment, and a sense of belonging that cannot be replicated by any other experience.

True love is a rare and precious gift that should never be taken for granted. In a world where superficial connections and fleeting romances dominate, finding true love requires patience, vulnerability, and the willingness to take risks. When the opportunity presents itself, it is essential to seize it with both hands, for it could be a once-in-a-lifetime chance to experience a love that transcends time and circumstances. So, for those of you out there like me who are looking, open your hearts, embrace vulnerability, and be ready to grab true love when it comes knocking on our door. 

Is it love?

According to Alura you can tell if someone is a soul mate and vice versa, if you see these signs. 

Deep Connection:  A soul mate connection goes beyond surface-level interactions. Alura says that you feel an instant and profound connection with the person, as if you have known them for a lifetime. There is a sense of familiarity and comfort that cannot be easily explained.

Shared Values and Beliefs: Soul mates often share similar values, beliefs, and life goals. You find yourselves aligned in your perspectives on important aspects of life, such as family, spirituality, or personal growth. This shared foundation creates a strong bond and sense of understanding.

Unconditional Acceptance: A soul mate accepts you for who you are, flaws and all. They see your imperfections as part of your unique beauty and love you unconditionally. There is no judgment or need for pretense in their presence.

Growth and Support: A soul mate encourages your personal growth and supports you in becoming the best version of yourself. They inspire you to pursue your dreams, challenge your limitations, and provide a safe space for you to explore your potential.

Synchronicity and Serendipity: Soul mates often experience synchronicities and serendipitous moments. You may find yourselves thinking the same thoughts, finishing each other’s sentences, or experiencing similar life events simultaneously. These occurrences reinforce the deep connection between your souls.

Signs of Being in Love:

Constant Thoughts: When you are in love, the person occupies your thoughts throughout the day. They become a constant presence in your mind, and you find yourself daydreaming about them and imagining a future together.

Emotional Intensity: Love brings forth a range of intense emotions. You may feel a deep sense of joy, happiness, and contentment when you are with the person you love. At the same time, you may also experience vulnerability, fear, and a heightened sense of empathy towards their emotions.

Prioritizing Their Happiness: When you are in love, the happiness and well-being of your partner become a priority. You genuinely care about their feelings, needs, and desires, and you strive to support and uplift them in any way you can.

Mutual Respect and Trust: Love is built on a foundation of respect and trust. You have faith in your partner’s intentions and actions, and they reciprocate this trust. There is open communication, honesty, and a sense of security in the relationship.

Willingness to Sacrifice: Love often involves making sacrifices for the well-being of your partner and the relationship. You are willing to compromise, make adjustments, and put their needs before your own. This selflessness is a testament to the depth of your love.

It is important to note that these signs are not definitive proof of a soul mate or being in love. Each relationship is unique, and it is essential to trust your intuition and personal experiences when determining the authenticity of a soul connection or love. However, this is what I’ve learned and I can say that it feels like correct information in my heart. I definitely have a lot to learn when it comes to soul mates and true love still but at least I have a good foundation of knowledge now. I think I may have actually found it already! I hope! 

Prior to my working with Alura, I had many misconceptions about the subject. This experience of looking for love and learning with Alura have both truly enlightened me more on the subject.

Good luck on your search! Finding true love and that special someone are rare and so you should never let the opportunity pass you by. According to Alura, anything can happen and it does. Embrace it if you think you’ve found it! 

If you want to try a more unconventional approach, get a reading like I did, you can find Alura at her site:

By Jared Lazinski

Celebrity News Journalist- Writer- Traveler- Entrepreneur-LGBTQ Supporter Somewhat religious, mostly spiritual. Exploring what interests me and sharing a site with a friend to do so.

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